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Better than Beauty: A Guide to Charm
written by H Valentine, A Thompson
Studio : Chronicle Books
by Chronicle Books
Publisher : Chronicle Books
Released : 2002-03-01
Availability : Usually ships in 1-2 business days
Number of Items : 1
EAN : 9780811834513
Avg. Customer Rating: (based on 47 reviews)
List Price : $14.95
Our Price : $8.05
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Chronicle Books resuscitates the long-lost art of charm with this classic compendium of hints, tips, and tricks guaranteed to boost anyone’s charm quotient. First published in 1938, this delightful handbook is overflowing with timeless advice to guide readers through a maze of social interactions with wit and grace. More than an etiquette or personal grooming book, Better than Beauty tackles complicated social situations with delicacy: • How to be kind to atrocious people • How to avoid the gossip mill • How many drinks is too many drinks • How to deflect unwanted advances from married men • How much to tip • And much, much more With good humor, authors Helen Valentine and Alice Thompson offer straightforward charm counsel, making it a cinch to win the admiration of friends, family, and suitors. Featuring original artwork, Better than Beauty proves that charm never, ever goes out of style. |
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Great find |
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I loved this book. As some of the other reviewers noted, there is a bit of non-applicable information in the first portion (making sure the seams on your nylons are straight, etc.). However, I found most of the advice to be timeless and a much-needed reminder of true etiquette. |
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Very Charming Book |
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I tend to have high expectations for self-help and guide books, which few ever live up to. But this book is everything I had hoped it would be. It has everything! Yes, most of the information can be found just about in every women's magazine, but those magazines don't have a sense of humour about it. What makes this book truley charming is how it doesn't take everything so seriously, it's a light-hearted guide, intended to make you laugh while you learn. |
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No Good |
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This might have been the worst purchase I've ever made. The book taught me nothing. It was originally published in 1938, which should be expained on the cover because the information is so completely outdated. There is a paragraph on how to make your own deoderant - what on earth does that have to do with a woman's grace and charm? I'm embarrassed that I spent money on this and hope to get some back when I resell it. |
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Refreshingly modern (surprisingly!) |
I bought this as research for a novel. That being said, there are only a few things that are dated in this book in my opinion-- things like how to make liquid shampoo and rinse it out if you don't have access to unlimited running water, how to use deodorant with dress shields, a balanced diet should include salt, and much advice on how to choose hats. I expected as much. I expected quite a lot more batting eyes and staying mousy-quiet to catch a man, to be honest, considering the time period.
Herein lies the surprise: the emphasis in this book is on how to be a classy individualist without being a stuffy bore. The authors carefully take into account that all women aren't the same, and shouldn't be. They even admit it might be advantageous for a working woman to swear in the office to get things done. What a couple of saucy dames these women are!
The first section encourages women to come up with a personal and practical style without sucking out the fun. They ignore the rules in fashion magazines (which appear to be the same rules in fashion mags today) and present everything you might need to know head-to-toe with simple rules.
For example, the placement and angle of your rouge is not as important as making sure it blends in gradually with your natural color. The only rule for hair is "Does it look like it would be pleasant to touch?" And my favorite, "If being on a diet makes you jumpy and irritable, it probably isn't worth your effort. Everyone prefers a few extra pounds to a shrewish disposition." Bravo!
Similarly, the second part, about charming others, uses this simple rule for etiquette: "The only bad manners are those which are unkind or which contribute to another person's discomfort." There. Emily Post in one line. In addition, remember the simple thank you, treat the waiter as someone helping you, not a robot. Don't let your date drive drunk.
The authors spend a lot of time warning the reader to shy away from conversations involving complaints, what they ate at breakfast, how much sleep they lost, needless tangents and lists of pointless encyclopedic facts. Why? Because they are boring. Need proof? When was the last time you paid attention to a stranger's non-political blog? I rest my case.
Instead they promote a) having fun and laughing and b) reading constantly to to fill yourself with topics of conversation that don't involve gossip. Here's the kicker, they discard the old rule that you shouldn't talk religion, media or politics in company and actually encourage women to watch out for propaganda and to "Read several newspapers with different points of view and get into a violent argument on the obvious coloring of the news." What?!!
In short, many young women would find they'd get and keep the attention of real, live people in the real, live world by emulating the attitudes of Helen Valentine and Alice Thompson FAR better than by posting glam pics on Myspace and complaining about how boys they like are constantly blowing them off "liek there OpInIoNs dont matR".
Someone send this to Paris and Britney, please? |
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Just ok |
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Like many others, I thought this book was written in the present and was surprised to find such dated attitudes caontained within. Sure it is enjoyable as a novlety read, and would be a great addition to anyone who is a collector of such items, but for serious information on the art of charm it would be best to avoid this book |
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